I found a cheap small screw driver that I ground down to make a removal tool for the connectors. I damaged the ES-00078 when I tried to install the right wing. I have another one on order, but I need to get the wires out of this one first. The new tool seemed to work fine. I slide it on side, then while pulling on the wire, I slide it in the other side and the connectors slide right out.
took picture to make sure I know which wires go where
ground down a small screw drive to make a removal tool
just small enough to slide in and pull the connectors